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A quest for finding your true love

The dating scene has significantly changed over the years. With more and more people relying on the presence of technology, it is not a surprise to see that it has been incorporated in the way that people meet potential partners, the way they communicate, and the way they date too. Still, one thing is unchanged- everybody wants to find that someone special, that someone right.

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On your first date, you want to impress the woman that you are with. You want to sound open. You want to show that you are insightful and even witty but what if you are actually saying the wrong things? You will never get a second date with the woman that you find so attractive.

You know that she is smart and you find her so attractive. The moment that she walks into the room, you see her immediately. You see other guys and even girls looking at her and you feel proud that she is your date. You may feel a swell of pride right now but will the date last?

One of the mistakes that men do is they repeatedly tell the women they are out on a date with that they are awesome. This is because men may feel a bit scared that if they would not tell women that they are great, they would not know. If you feel this way, stop saying things that will only make women think that you are arrogant. One thing to remember: if you are truly as awesome as you assume that you are, a woman will see that and you do not even have to try.

The Stupid Things You May Say

How many times have you looked back on a date that you have had and you wish that you can take back what you said? This happens not only to men but also women but if you do not want a repeat performance of the failed dates you have had in the past, you need to know the things you should avoid saying.

These are some of the things you should avoid:

1. I saw that you had a fun weekend online.

You may not realize immediately what is wrong with this statement. It seems harmless enough and not all women will be shocked when you say this but for women who are intuitive, this statement will show that you have been stalking her profile all weekend. It will be enough to make some women feel uncomfortable.

If you would like to tell her that you are interested in her life, you have to wait for her to open up about it before you say that you have checked. The effect will be different on the woman that you are with.

2. I have bad blood with my brother.

You do not have to say this line exactly to make a woman feel that you are not worth her time. A lot of things may occur at the first date and a woman may assess if you are a good catch based on the things that you say. If you say negative things about the people that you know on the first date, this can make women feel that you are full of negativity and extra baggage. This is something that you do not want to happen.

When you complain too much about the life that you live, it is guaranteed to make her feel a bit turned-off by you. Speak positively of other people and when you get to know her better, that is the time when you can talk about the things that are bothering you.

3. I am always the last customer to leave this bar.

It can be sweet if you would bring your date to the place that you are most comfortable in. It can be your favorite bar. In the beginning, your date might think that you are taking her there because you find her special but if you tell her that you are the last customer to leave, this signifies that you are a drunkard and you do not care much for your time.

A woman is always looking for a man that she can depend on. She wants the person to be stable and reliable. If you cannot provide that, expect that she would not like to have a second date with you.

4. I’m impressed with how much you can eat.

When you say this, expect that the woman will automatically feel a bit self-conscious about what she has eaten so far. She will also feel that you are scrutinizing her. She would feel bad about herself and she wouldn’t like how you make her feel. Whether you meant something else when you told her this line, you have to realize that it will not let you win points with her. She will be deleting your number from her phone after your date.

5. I think I am not picky enough about the girls I meet.

The fact that you would say this means that you wanted to date her because she is available. Even if you meant that you normally make the wrong choices when it comes to girls, a woman will take this statement the wrong way. She would feel that you are just there because you have no choice and she is not really the best available.

If you want to keep a girl and if you want to go on more dates with the woman that you are interested in, you need to flatter her. You need to make her realize that by dating you, she is doing you a favor and not the other way around.

6. Can you guess how much money I make?

You probably know that a lot of women are searching for security. They want to be with men who will make them feel secure about their future. Some women may still think this way but a lot of women are now more independent. They would love to be with men who are secure but not to the point that men will already become arrogant with how much they make.

When you say this, a woman will think that you are assuming that she only wants your money. Not all women are like that. Women can like you for who you are. Women can like you with the emotional support that you can provide for them.

7. Do you drink enough water? It can improve your skin.

When you say anything that vaguely sounds like a criticism, expect that women are going to take it the wrong way. If you say this, she would assume that you think that her skin is not nice enough. It does not have to be this statement exactly. It can be about how thin or how rowdy her hair is. You can even make a comment about her weight and expect that she is going to hate you forever.

It is okay to tease a woman when you two are close but if you are not close with one another at all, it is best that you would just keep those comments to yourself. The less that you say about her skin even if you think that she could improve it, the better.

8. I find it cool that you are so relaxed about how you look.

You might think that this is a compliment but expect that a woman will take it the wrong way. She would assume that you are criticizing her because she did not pay too much attention to her looks. It is even worse if she spent a lot of time trying to improve her appearance and you did not even make any effort to recognize that.

You cannot tell a woman that she looks relaxed with how she looks. If you want to properly compliment her, then use the right adjectives to tell her so. She will not be disappointed this way.

Say any of these things mentioned above and expect that you will not hear from your date ever again.

Mature Dating Over 50-Top Tips

Posted on October 19, 2017
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Category: Mature Dating

 

Mature Dating Over 50-Top Tips

You can get the best experience from your dating escapade if you have access to the right kind of information. Dating can be fun and interesting; it can be engrossing and endearing, provided you know what to do and do it right. You should not allow age to be a barrier to finding love. Even if you are over 50’s, you can still fall in love again. This is not to say you will not encounter one challenge or the other along the way, but the tips provided here can help to overcome those challenges. In this write-up, you will be given various dating tips that can take your love life to the next level. Continue reading to find out about more about just senior singles.

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Handling the technologies

If you are not entirely familiar with the use of the computer, it is high time you learned it. This is because the internet is one of the fastest ways to meet that man or woman of your dream for dating. You may also meet these God-sent individuals offline, but the internet makes it faster and easier. This is why you need to get accustomed to the use of the computer and the internet if you do not have such knowledge already. It is never too late to start and learn. For one, you should know how to handle a digital camera and also upload pictures on dating websites. You should also know how to create a profile on these websites. Profile creation helps you to tell the world your special personalities, which is one of the surest ways to find a befitting date.

The above computer activities are not difficult, and you can learn them fast if you do not know how to do them yet. Why not ask for help from your kid or grandkid? They will be most willing to teach you how to use the technology. Some people may see it as awkward to ask their kids or grandkids to teach them how to use the computer for uploading pictures on dating websites. If you are one of such people, you can get help from the technical support team of the dating site or a dating coach.

What is your idea of a fantastic date?

It is possible you are one of those who think it is awkward to date someone you meet on social media or dating websites. Maybe you have already pictured in your mind and built a fantasy around your dating life, building up a story from your straying imagination. It is high time you started having a different idea about dating. The right person will not necessarily come from the place you expect. The love of your life may come from the most unexpected places; it can also be from a dating site. Freeing yourself from some of the unreal dating ideas will help you a lot. Open your heart and mind and be ready for a new experience in dating.

Handling the possibilities

Online dating will help you to meet many people. The possibilities are endless. Be that as it may, you need to be careful how you handle these people. You may want to sample several individuals before making a final choice, but you must keep your head while sampling and not get carried away.

Many messages will enter your inbox during this period. You may get overwhelmed by the sheer number and bothered by your inability to respond to all of them. You should face reality instead of feeling guilty. The reality is that you cannot respond to all of them. You also cannot go out on a date with every man that sends you a message on online dating sites like just senior singles or match.com. You only have access to 24 hours in a day, and you should spend every hour judiciously. Opening up to alternatives and possibilities is good, but it should never be allowed to encroach too deeply into your privacy and take too much of your time.

Even if picking and choosing is not your area of specialty at the start, you will learn with time. With a little practice, you have the instinct to choose properly who among those messaging you to spend your time with. This way, you will not get burnt out from the dating experience.

Do not jump to conclusion too quickly

Do not make the mistake many women make, thinking that they are already in a relationship with an individual even before the other party gives them a clear idea of where things are heading. Maybe you two are already talking all the time; maybe the two of you always have a great time when you go out on a date; that does not mean you should jump into conclusion that it is a relationship already. Do not conclude that the other person is in a relationship with you just yet until the two of you get into deep, sincere talk and have a clearer understanding of where things are heading.

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Some Helpful Tips on Mature Dating in the UK

Posted on October 7, 2017
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Category: Mature Dating

If there is one thing that anybody who has ever dated will tell you, it’s that dating is not always easy. It is not always breezy. Finding yourself in the dating setting again is always daunting. You may have already been in a marriage or a long-term relationship. You may be one of those people that just put work a priority all this time and now wants some change. Either way, it is not always easy to get out there and find another person whom you can be quite compatible with.

While you have had the experience of dating before, the fact that you have not been in the scene for a long time will likely make you feel a little rusty. Besides, the setting is quite a modern one now compared to what you were used to before. That makes it even more of a challenge for you. To help you get back on your dating gears again though, we compiled some helpful tips below.

Get a feel for the scene
It does help to get a good idea of the kind of dating scene that is present now. Before you decide to go full speed, you do want to test the waters first. You want to get a good feel of the dating atmosphere that is present now to see if things are indeed to your liking. This should at least help you get that much-needed adjustment so you know you will fit in just fine.

First-date nerves are normal
There is just no getting over that. Maybe it is the excitement at the prospect of meeting a new love, but nerves are going to keep you company the first time you start dating. Embrace it and know that there is a very good chance that the person sitting opposite you is pretty much feeling the same emotions too. This will help you ease into to better and will allow you to be more natural with the interaction.

Give online dating a try
If you have decided to sign up for online dating, then make sure to make the best out of it. Go for sites that are specially created to cater to people in your age group. This ensures that the services they are offering are tailed fit to suit the unique needs of people your age. Make the most of their services too. Take the time to learn what they are offering, so you know that you are getting the most out of what you have signed up for.


Don’t get pressured to go on a date
Just because you have started talking to someone does not mean that you are going to have to date them soonest. Conversations do not always end up on dates, and that is fine. Consider it very much the same as your interactions in real life. Not every single person of the opposite sex that you meet along the way will be someone you will date. The same is true in the virtual setting too. Just go with the flow and try not to rush things.

It helps to talk to the person over the phone before a date
If you have finally snagged a date, but is feeling nervous over the fact, you can always talk over the phone first. It is easy to feel a little disconnected when you are talking online. But when you get to hear the voice of that person on the other end, it becomes easier to remind you that this is not just a virtual personality you are talking to, but a real person. That should help put things more into perspective.

 

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